....offering a little insight and advice to the parents of high school seniors being recruited by college coaches. Here is what I learned, what I did right, what I did wrong, what to expect and everything in between.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

I wish I knew now what I didn't know then!


I guess I'll start at the end and work backwards. Decisions have been made. Although, the process leading up to this point was not easy. Going in, we knew nothing about the whole college application process, let alone the recruiting process. I will always maintain my view that the recruiting process throws a GIANT wrench into what would otherwise be a fairly straightforward experience. While we have decided on a college and accepted the financial aid package, there is still a lot to come our way and I'm sure we will continue to learn as we go. My son ended up applying "Early Decision" to the college he felt was the best fit for him, his major and his wish to play college football. (See link to left for more information on Early Decision) The main thing I wish to tell other parents is that the stress level is high during this time and there is often frustration, worry and impatience. It seems like all you do is wait. These feelings do subside and things do come together. As graduation approaches, we at least know where my son is headed and can focus on other important things and maybe even enjoy the summer some. My son can also spend his last few months at home enjoying his friends and not worrying so much about IF he will be accepted to the college(s) he applied to. There is still a lot to do and fall will be here before we know it, but I must admit..... I'm glad it's over!
Or is it?

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